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The Voice of Blythewood & Fairfield County
City of Blythewood and Fairfield County Newspaper
FAIRFIELD COUNTY – They’ve been greatest buddies since first grade. They graduated highschool collectively, then went to nursing faculty collectively and all turned nurses.
The 5 Fairfield girls, Barbara (Johnson) Wylie, Mary (McGraw) Frink, Ivy (Williams) Randolph, Lillie (Pearson) Adams, Australia (Ashford) Sloss Hollins, now all age 70, sat down with The Voice final week to reminisce about their lifelong friendship, the enjoyable they’d, the mischief they received into, and what having one another’s again for many of their lives has meant to them.
Born in 1952, the 5 ladies ended up in the identical first grade classroom at Kelly Miller Elementary College. 
“We had been in the identical school rooms yearly all through highschool at McCrorey-Liston,” Australia stated.
“That’s as a result of we had been all within the ‘A’ class,” stated Mary. “Again then the grade degree courses had been divided into ‘A’ class, ‘B’ class, and ‘C’ class.” We had been within the “A” class as a result of we made principally ‘A’s.”
However the girls weren’t drawn collectively due to their good grades. “I don’t know what it was, however from the beginning of first grade, there was only a pure bonding between all 5 of us,” Barbara stated.
“And fairly quickly everybody noticed us as a bunch. We didn’t stay shut sufficient to play collectively, however we did every part collectively at college.”
“When Barbara introduced a bit of lemon cake to high school, all of us ate it. If considered one of us introduced a sandwich, all of us shared it. That’s how shut we had been,” Lillie stated.
They insist that they didn’t get into a lot mischief in elementary faculty. They stated all of them got here from strict mother and father who stored them in step with guidelines, chores and schoolwork – and switchings once they failed to stick to the household guidelines.
Nonetheless, there was the time that Mary needed to go to Australia after faculty and rode the bus dwelling together with her with out telling anybody and with out her dad or mum’s permission.
“We had fun taking part in till my Momma discovered the place I used to be,” Mary remembers with a grimace. Their actual mischief manifested itself throughout highschool.
“We didn’t actually do something unhealthy,” Mary stated as all of them forged glances and smiles at one another.
“Some youngsters made rabbit tobacco cigarettes,” Mary stated. “To make it, you wrapped this weed we known as rabbit tobacco in a bit of brown paper, rolled it up and smoked it. I smoked it as soon as, but it surely made me sick.  I used to be loads sicker when Momma discovered about it.”
Over time, the 5 faculty ladies develop into identified for his or her loyalty to one another and that they all the time did every part collectively.
“When a boy in elementary faculty made enjoyable of me, Australia and Barbara within the cafeteria line, we determined to take the matter up with him” Lillie stated.
The three rode the identical faculty bus as he did, and once they received off the bus at college the subsequent morning, they walked to the elementary aspect of the college – forbidden to highschool college students – and caught as much as him. 
“He was afraid of us and took a swing at me,” Barbara stated, “and I attempted to hit him again, however I missed. One of many academics witnessed the incident and turned us in to Mr. Brown, the principal. The following day, Mr. Brown known as all 5 of us, not simply the three concerned, to his workplace.”
“He suspended all 5 of us for every week!” Mary stated, nonetheless incredulous. “My momma was so mad and went as much as the college to ask Mr. Brown why he suspended me and Ivy since we weren’t concerned. He instructed her he knew how tight us 5 ladies had been, and that if me and Ivy had been there we might have been in on it too, so he suspended all 5 of us. My momma was actually mad…however again then the principal was like one other dad or mum to us, and there wasn’t something Momma might do.”
All 5 girls laughed, however recalled how un-funny it was again then.
A Sisterhood was born
Such was the fame of their particular ‘sisterhood.’
Whereas the ladies had been shut, every had totally different pursuits and ambitions. Lillie was a cheerleader and Barbara was elected Miss Freshman. Lillie and Mary needed to be academics; Australia needed to be a housewife and have six youngsters; Barbara needed to be a nurse like her mom, and Ivy, the quiet one of many 5, wasn’t positive what she needed to do.  
“On the finish of our junior 12 months, every of us solely lacked one credit score – an English class – and we might have graduated early by attending summer season faculty,” Australia stated. “However our households couldn’t afford summer season faculty. So, within the fall semester all of us took the English class – collectively.”
“Our principal, Mr. Brown, was very strict and wouldn’t allow us to take only one class, so we signed up for a sophisticated math class and one other class. We signed up for the nursing class within the afternoon on the vocational faculty in Winnsboro.” 
“The mathematics class was type of laborious and we weren’t all in favour of it – we weren’t doing our greatest work and had been simply getting by,” Lillie recalled. “Our trainer, Mr. Beatty, received on our case and failed all of us! However we didn’t care. Failing math didn’t cease us. We nonetheless graduated!” she stated and laughed. The opposite 4 laughed and nodded.
Because it turned out, the vocational nursing courses modified the course of the ladies’s lives.
After commencement from McCrory-Liston, all of them continued – collectively – on the nursing path and took their medical work at Baptist Hospital to develop into Licensed Sensible Nurses (LPNs).
Upon commencement from nursing faculty, Barbara, Australia and Lillie went to work at Columbia Hospital (later Richland Memorial.).Barbara and Lillie had been neonatal nurses. Australia first labored in surgical procedure and later within the bone marrow transplant middle. Mary went to work on the Division of Psychological Well being in Columbia and later turned a neonatal nurse. Ivy labored at Windfall Hospital, first in surgical procedure, then ICU and later endoscopy. She later turned nurse supervisor over the neonatal intensive care unit (NICU) at her hospital.
Lillie and Ivy went on to get their bachelor levels and have become Registered Nurses (RNs).
Trying again, the ladies say it was not simply the enjoyable and camaraderie they loved of their distinctive sisterhood, but it surely was a security internet, a consolation to know and belief that the others had been like household and all the time had their backs.
“By means of all of it, we had been shut,” Lillie stated. “We liked one another and, as adults, once we discuss each month or so, we all the time finish the cellphone name saying, ‘I really like you,” Lillie stated.
“And to today,” she stated, “when considered one of us sees former classmates, they all the time ask in regards to the different 4 ladies. We had been as shut as sisters and everybody knew it. It’s a particular bond that now we have, even as we speak.”


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